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This is also known as first order change. First order change is a type of change where there really is no change.


How's that again? Pretty foggy Cheap Amani Hooker Jersey , huh?


Allow me to clear it up for you. Authors Waltzlawick, Weakland and Fisch, in their book "Change: Principles of Problem Formation and Problem Resolution" explain it this way:


?...A person having a nightmare can do many things in their dream - run, hide, fight Cheap Nate Davis Jersey , scream, jump off a cliff, etc. - but no change from any one of these behaviors to another would ever terminate the nightmare.?


In other words, you can have lots of action and moving around, without any real change taking place.


A good example from the relationship world is the belief that ending one relationship for another will change everything and make you happy. Not necessarily. Remember these profound words of wisdom Cheap A.J. Brown Jersey , ?Wherever you go, you take yourself with you.?


2. The Law of Transformation


This is also known as second order change. Again, according to the authors,


?The one way out of a dream involves a change from dreaming to waking. Waking, obviously Cheap Jeffery Simmons Jersey , is no longer a part of the dream, but a change to a different state altogether.?


In other words, transformation, or put more simply, real change Wholesale Tennessee Titans Jerseys , involves movement from one state to another.


3. The Law of The Clutch


This is also known as the law of conscious attention. Several years ago, the clutch went out on my two year old car. I asked the mechanic why this would happen so soon and he asked me a few questions about how I drive. It turns out I was a champion clutch rider. If it was possible for me to have the clutch in, it was in.


What's the point? Well, I found myself having to pay conscious attention to something I had been doing, kind of unconsciously Wholesale Titans Jerseys , for years - driving.


There are times in our life where we have to pay conscious and careful attention to what we are doing and thinking in order to get the changes we want.


4. The Law of Others


Whenever you set out to change someone else, you are doomed to frustration and failure. The only person we can change is ourselves, and that's difficult enough sometimes.


5. The Law of Wet Diapers